Honesty, Integrity and Gratitude

Can a martial arts school really teach qualities such as Honesty, Integrity and Gratitude? Does our school really make a difference in lives other than the physical attainment of self defense skills?

Let me tell you a short, personal (and true) story, about something that happened to me this weekend. As I was leaving the school on Saturday, I was taking my stuff out of my cubbie and cramming it into my pockets. However, I obviously missed something-- later that night, I reached into my pocket to pay for something, and my money clip was missing. After a quick panic attack, I realized what must have happened-- and counted that money as a loss. That money was probably right now buying ice cream at Liks or coffee at Starbucks!

Sunday morning, I went back over to the school "just to check." Sure enough, my cubbie was empty. Just for "grins" I checked Gloria's desk. THERE WAS MY MONEY CLIP and cash! Someone had obviously turned it in. Now, while this wasn't a huge sum of money, it was enough to tempt the honesty of anyone-- about $50. I was certain that someone would be "stimulating the economy" with my greenbacks!

Upon reflection, I really should not be surprised by this incident. Part of our daily routine is reciting an oath that states we will live with integrity, respect and honor. Our "word for the cycle" is Gratitude. Almost every class has a moral lesson involved with the instruction. Why would I doubt that our students would not live up to the level of integrity?

This event shows me, again, how important what we teach is. Taekwondo is more than fancy kicks and powerful punches. It is more than being able to defend yourself against the bad guys of the world. It is more than belts and forms and boards.

It is about challenging yourself physically and mentally to be the best person you can be. It is about learning to respect others. It is about traveling a path filled with Honestly, Integrity, and Gratitude!

Good luck in your Journey!

Mr. Bailey
4th Degree Black Belt